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My father's name was Melie. At least that was what I thought. I first heard it from my mother when I was a child, but in Those Days, no one would ever call his parent by their first name. So, it was kind of a sacred name to me, and I never really questioned it.
It wasn't long before I realized everyone but his kids called him Melie. His friends, his family, everyone. So I presumed that was what he wanted to be called and that he likely introduced himself by that name.
Now, I was probably well into my adolescence when I realized his real name was Emilio, and I think that came about when I happened across a letter addressed to him. A weird name I thought. No wonder why he had a nick name. When you combined "Emilio" with our last name it became kind of a tongue twister. At times, I thought of it as a romantic kind of name. But, none the less, he was "Pop" to me.
Pop was an Italian, but I was quite old before I knew that. Born here by his immigrant parents. But he passed little of his heritage on to us. Not the language, or the religion, or the music, nor anything else. I really don't know why that was, but I think he wanted us to be Americans. And he hated the mafia and thought the mafia casted a bad image on him. The only thing that he seemed to retain was his love for Italian food. Spaghetti, in particular, with lots of bread and butter. And he passed that on to me.
I can imagine Pop at the Thought Dock. He would have loved it. It's not that he was a great outdoors man. Far from that. But, he did like being outside, but close enough to be inside when it became too hot or cold. So, he could get from the Dock to the Nest in a few short steps if needed.
He had a passion for boats, but it was not like he really knew what to do with one. And, he liked water and liked to swim. And he liked barbecuing, steak in particular, and he was a great cook, when he cooked. Actually, he was a chef in a fancy restaurant at one time.
And, I miss Pop, but I'll always have the Melie Memories.
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Wednesday, February 17, 2010
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Emilio. Melie. not Mealie, not Meelie. Chief, The Big D, even Spike or Sarge. Pop to some, Dad to others.
ReplyDeleteHe called his children, birds. "What are you birds up to?" he would say. and the grand-kids...well they were the childrens...perhaps that was children's.
quiet. never said much. hollered a lot. but could laugh out loud when pushed into it. sometimes it was as simple as The Flintstones or The Simpsons. Other times, it was the silly antics of the kids or grand kids that could get him going.
slept on the couch afterwork always watching the six o'clock news. don't touch that dial! he was watching! always had his hand over his eye, finger pointed to his temple.
yeah there are tons of stories about him. his dislike for the mafia was so very great, never would speak of the sicilians. would not go see The Godfather.
proud. American. even with the funny rhyming italian name. and we do too own stock in a castle on "our" isle of Ischia!
oh my gosh....memories of dad at Lake George!!!
ReplyDeletei miss him too.
Thanx Geo - I knew it was something like that!
ReplyDeletePop would of never come to the thought dock and you need to quit dreaming he would bro. Pop came up here with Mom twice and hated it. The first time was a short visit with Dan and Z Ann and Kathy and I for about 2 to 3 days, the second time he came up here with Mom to see the grandkid Paul. Showed up about 5 oclock in the evening, watched the news and found out it wasn't going to quit raining till summer and this was in November. Left in the morning as early as 6 with Mom in tears never to come back. He actually hated this place.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny how your mind will actually play tricks on you sometimes.
Hogs - Perhaps it was you that stressed him, not the weather.
ReplyDeleteAll the home videos I watched from way back when just the other day (Thanks Ashley) there was only 2 minutes of him in there. Lots of grandma. I miss them both so much. Thanks for writing about them I love to hear the stories.
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